At the time I did not understand what a huge influence my
dad was in helping me become the man I am today. In fact even that statement
does not describe how unaware I was in regards to the relationship that would
develop between me and my dad. I have three distinct memories of the earliest
times where I went to work with dad.
While still living in the Pink House in
Spanish Fork, which would have made me 6 or maybe 7, I had a day off of school
and dad took me with him to work. We were working on a fourplex apartment in
Orem. Besides playing on the dirt hill with my orange dump truck and picking up
scrap wood and nails I remember two distinct things. The building was two
stories and they already had the walls up on the first floor and I was able to
help dad put on the subfloor. He would roll up the floor joist and I’d hold it
steady while he nailed it in place. After a long morning we had the floor on
and I remember sitting on the edge next to dad with my feet dangling over the
side and eating my sandwich thinking how cool it was to be sitting there on the
floor that we had just built. This fourplex is still there at the corner of
1854 South Columbia Lane in Orem.
Another time I recall going to work with dad at around the
same time was another fourplex apartment at 1350 South 800 East Orem. This time
we were finishing up getting all of the blocking in place before the dry wallers
came in to hang the sheetrock. I had gone around the whole project gathering up
all of the scrap wood that I could find and dad used the scraps for the backing.
This was a Saturday, oh the many Saturdays I spent working with dad, and we
pretty well had things finished by noon and just as we were ready to leave one
of dad’s friends stopped by and they got to talking. I think that I remember
this time working with dad because it was Saturday after all and we were done
but dad talked and talked and …talked. I was kicking dirt clods and sitting in
the truck listening to the radio all the while my Saturday was wasting away.
The last of my earliest memories of working with dad was
going with him as he worked on our house in Edgemont, 764 East Crestview Avenue
Provo to be exact. I was able to help with everything from digging the basement
to poring the cement for the sidewalks to planting the grass.
I recently had a chance to take Dena, Jessica, Molli and
Delene to Provo to visit mom and dad’s graves. This trip was especially
memorable because after saying hi to mom and dad we drove around Provo and Orem
where I showed them some of the homes and buildings that I had worked on with
dad. He definitely left a wonderful impact on the landscape of Utah Valley. The
more I showed them around and told stories of what we did here and what we did
there the more I came to realize the impact that working with dad left on me. I
can never begin to express how learning the value of a good day’s work effected
my life. Dad taught me that through hard work, perseverance, learning, studding,
and sacrifice I could achieve my dreams. I am now 61 years old and since I was
16 I have never ever been out of a job. I have always worked and worked hard at
whatever endeavor I have been engaged in. I hope that I have in return passed
these values on to my children.
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