Trip to Mexico


In Junior High I took two years of Spanish. As I look back I realize that I was a terrible student. I had the basics of the language but never really applied myself to really learn how to speak well. Mrs. Finlayson who happened to live in our neighborhood, was my teacher. At the end of the second year Spanish students from across Utah had the opportunity to take a week-long trip to Mexico. I was able to talk my parents into sending me. I was over the moon with excitement.

I was the only one from our school going which meant that I didn’t know anyone except for Mrs. Finlayson. The Monday after school was out for the summer we met the bus at a rest stop on I15. Yes, we rode a bus all the way to Guadalajara Mexico but I didn’t care it was such an adventure.

The first day we stopped in Hermosillo. As we were entering Hermosillo we saw some little kids standing along the roadside holding these huge lizards that they had caught and were trying to get us to stop and buy them. I was amazed at how different it was from Utah. I recall all of the warm and friendly people that we met who were so welcoming and wanted us to enjoy our visit.

The second day we stopped in Mazatlan. Our hotel was right on the beach and this was the first time that I had seen the ocean. My roommate and I got up early the next morning, put on our swim suits and headed to the beach. It was early so no one was there and we had the whole beach to ourselves. I was beyond thrilled to actually swim in the ocean. As we were about to dive in the waves this old man came running up to us and told us that we could not swim there. We didn’t fully understand what he was saying but he made himself very clear that he wouldn’t let us get in the water. Reluctantly we just walked along the beach picking up a few shells then went back to the hotel. As we walked in the front door we were met by the desk clerk who was shocked at seeing us in our swim suits and she explained to us that there was a huge sign that said “No Swimming – Extreme Undertows” We had walked right past the sign and had no clue.

The next day we went to Guadalajara where we were placed with families who welcomed us into their homes and let us see what it was like living as a family in Mexico. The family that I stayed with were really cool. I recall that after dinner we sat around the kitchen table and talked and they got out a guitar and taught us some songs. It was really fun. As I look back I now realize that they were actually quite an affluent family and there was an entire different class of families in Guadalajara but this family couldn’t have been more welcoming to us.

Our next stop was Mexico City. We spent several days in and around Mexico City. I was fascinated with Teotihuacan or the Mayan Temple of the Sun. I couldn’t believe that I was actually walking in the same location that the Mayans had so long ago. I recall being struck in awe of the stories of
sacrifices and actually seeing where it was performed. I loved Mexico City! It was the biggest city I had ever seen and I was actually there. We went to the bazaars where I haggled for a few souvenirs for the first time in my life, I thought I was pretty shrewd until I realized that the little statue I bought was not authentic but a cheap replica that was in almost every other shop in the bazaar.

I recall being impressed when they took us to see where the Olympic Games had been held in Mexico City. I think we were supposed to be seeing the University but to me it was all about the Olympics. I had watched the Olympics on TV and can still remember Tommie Smith and John Carlos raising their fists in the air while standing on the winner’s podium and I was there. Even today when I see pictures of Mexico City I recognize places that I visited.

We rode a train from Mexico City to the US border. This was my first time on a train and I really had a great time. I made my way to the very back to the caboose and sat on the platform watching the countryside fly by. I was totally enthralled by the vast empty desert landscape. From the border we again took a bus back home.

As I look back at my 14 year old self and this trip I believe that this was the beginning of my wanderlust that has propelled me to live and travel all around the world. I’ve actually lived on every continent except for South America and of course Antarctica. Writing about this experience was quite fun as I have thought about things that I have not thought of for years.

Family Reunions


Growing up family reunions were something that I looked forward to every summer. We always have had a very close family and getting together at a family reunion was like hanging out with your absolute bestest friends that you haven’t seen for a whole year. We always had two reunions that we went to. The first was Grandma Golding’s brothers and sisters families, the Hamblin Reunion and the other was my mother’s family’s reunion the Golding Reunion. We would meet at various locations depending on who was putting the reunion on that year, but mostly we met at Avintaquin
Campgrounds just off of Highway 191 between Castle Gate and Duchesne. We always had quite a large group show up. My guess is that there’d often be 40 -60 of us. For us kids that things that we looked forward to the most were the games. We would have a softball game, horseshoes, and box hockey (we’d through horseshoes for hours and hours, often into the night). Sometimes someone would bring a barrel with a saddle on it and the barrel would be tethered by four ropes and tied to trees; we’d sit on the saddle while cousins would pull on the ropes trying to buck us off. There was always a huge potluck lunch followed by a cakewalk. In the evening we’d have a bonfire where we’d roast hot dogs and marshmallows. We loved sitting around the fire telling stories and singing songs. Every year we’d beg Uncle LaVell to sing his name song. Then Sunday morning we’d have a Priesthood meeting followed by a Fast and Testimony meeting. It was always sad to see the various families slowly begin to leave. Some I’d see again quite soon others I knew I wouldn’t see until next summer.

Early Memories of Working With Dad


At the time I did not understand what a huge influence my dad was in helping me become the man I am today. In fact even that statement does not describe how unaware I was in regards to the relationship that would develop between me and my dad. I have three distinct memories of the earliest times where I went to work with dad. 

While still living in the Pink House in Spanish Fork, which would have made me 6 or maybe 7, I had a day off of school and dad took me with him to work. We were working on a fourplex apartment in Orem. Besides playing on the dirt hill with my orange dump truck and picking up scrap wood and nails I remember two distinct things. The building was two stories and they already had the walls up on the first floor and I was able to help dad put on the subfloor. He would roll up the floor joist and I’d hold it steady while he nailed it in place. After a long morning we had the floor on and I remember sitting on the edge next to dad with my feet dangling over the side and eating my sandwich thinking how cool it was to be sitting there on the floor that we had just built. This fourplex is still there at the corner of 1854 South Columbia Lane in Orem.

Another time I recall going to work with dad at around the same time was another fourplex apartment at 1350 South 800 East Orem. This time we were finishing up getting all of the blocking in place before the dry wallers came in to hang the sheetrock. I had gone around the whole project gathering up all of the scrap wood that I could find and dad used the scraps for the backing. This was a Saturday, oh the many Saturdays I spent working with dad, and we pretty well had things finished by noon and just as we were ready to leave one of dad’s friends stopped by and they got to talking. I think that I remember this time working with dad because it was Saturday after all and we were done but dad talked and talked and …talked. I was kicking dirt clods and sitting in the truck listening to the radio all the while my Saturday was wasting away.

The last of my earliest memories of working with dad was going with him as he worked on our house in Edgemont, 764 East Crestview Avenue Provo to be exact. I was able to help with everything from digging the basement to poring the cement for the sidewalks to planting the grass.

I recently had a chance to take Dena, Jessica, Molli and Delene to Provo to visit mom and dad’s graves. This trip was especially memorable because after saying hi to mom and dad we drove around Provo and Orem where I showed them some of the homes and buildings that I had worked on with dad. He definitely left a wonderful impact on the landscape of Utah Valley. The more I showed them around and told stories of what we did here and what we did there the more I came to realize the impact that working with dad left on me. I can never begin to express how learning the value of a good day’s work effected my life. Dad taught me that through hard work, perseverance, learning, studding, and sacrifice I could achieve my dreams. I am now 61 years old and since I was 16 I have never ever been out of a job. I have always worked and worked hard at whatever endeavor I have been engaged in. I hope that I have in return passed these values on to my children.